Parent/Child Sun Signs
Introduction
This is a series of short introductory articles looking at some ways in which the influences of the various signs might manifest in a child and later on as a parent.
Aquarius
Children born with the Sun-sign of Aquarius have an inherent wisdom and understanding. Their thoughts and ideas are often way ahead of their time, and they need to express this originality and inventiveness. It will be helpful to encourage their interests, even if they seem a little out of the ordinary or unconventional - and frequently they will be. They have a tremendous need for independence. When their mind is made up, no amount of inducement will persuade them differently - but this just adds to the enchantment of the Aquarian child.
This is the sign of the free-spirit. There can be an urge to depart from the norm, and these little ones do need the space to develop free thinking. Their sympathetic attitude towards new ways or methods means they dislike restriction, but relish change and new things. They would probably feel stifled or bored if forced to observe too rigid a routine. All things progressive will fascinate them and they eagerly take in all that is new in technology, science and communications. Artistic activities too are usually enjoyed.
Aquarius is known as the sign of friendship, as it confers tolerance, sensitivity and thoughtfulness. These children are certainly individual little characters yet they also love being with others. They delight in meeting new people, usually get on well with others, and can be particularly good as a member of a team. Fitting in is very important to them, and they are often eager to belong to a group or society that reflects their own particular interests or which is connected to some unusual hobby they enjoy.
There is with this sign a natural tendency to view life in a detached manner, and so Aquarians seldom become too emotionally involved in the goings-on around them. The natural inclination is to approach problems through the mind not through the emotions. Being so mentally active can, without due care, sometimes be depleting. Try to encourage the young Aquarian to enjoy restful periods of quiet. It is especially restorative for them to spend time in the countryside or by the sea, as they are easily revitalised by contact with nature.
Aquarian children often have a strong will, and so can be somewhat resistant to doing things the way everyone else does. Even from a very young age, they can be quite serious and likely to exhibit mental independence. They have an inherent passion for knowledge, and with their enquiring original mind, they will need plenty of interests on the go to keep them stimulated and inspired. Their mental discipline and concentration are valuable assets, and as they grow older, many will be interested in exploring little-known subjects or disciplines. It is then that their good powers of observation, intuitive clear thinking and capacity for logical and rational thought will be of help.
With such a strong emphasis towards mental interests and occupations, it can be quite difficult for some of these little souls to express or even acknowledge their feelings. They will need gentle encouragement to tell you if they are upset, or if something is worrying them. Occasionally, too, it may take great patience and determination to help them to overcome any mental tiredness or unease. It is as well to remember that this sign also confers a good deal of common sense and usually a calm temperament. Aquarians realise the need for reason, justice, and fairness, so talk to them and explain things in a way they can understand and relate to, then potential difficulties will soon be alleviated.
Aquarian adults make liberal and forward-looking parents, and tend to be especially understanding when their children become involved in current fads. One of the most helpful qualities that this sign bestows is the capability to be non-judgemental. There is a natural adaptability, which, combined with an innate knowledge of human nature, gives parents here a wonderful insight into their children. They want to give their sons and daughters the freedom to express their individuality freely, and to enlarge their sympathies and mental horizons. Usually the Aquarian parent is not a strong disciplinarian, but they may occasionally need reminding of the inestimable value of a hug.
Perhaps the most demanding time for these parents is when their offspring are babies. As communication is an intrinsic part of their character, it is as the child matures, and thus ideas and dreams can be exchanged, that they really come into their own. An in-built down-to-earth realism helps them not to expect more from others that they are able to give. These are parents who like expanding the experience and knowledge of their children, and they endeavour to give them every opportunity. They usually find that exploring and experimenting together is very rewarding - as well as a tremendous amount of fun.
