{"id":8313,"date":"2020-08-21T11:48:42","date_gmt":"2020-08-21T11:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/druidry.org\/?p=8313"},"modified":"2024-03-08T21:14:21","modified_gmt":"2024-03-08T21:14:21","slug":"perspectives-on-celebrancy-2-river-jones-and-desiree-overeem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/druidry.org\/resources\/perspectives-on-celebrancy-2-river-jones-and-desiree-overeem","title":{"rendered":"Perspectives on Celebrancy 2 \u2013 River Jones and Desiree Overeem"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8316 ls-is-cached lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/druidry.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/heart-petals.jpg\" alt=\", .\" width=\"480\" height=\"600\" data-src=\"https:\/\/druidry.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/heart-petals.jpg\" data- title=\"\"><\/p>\r\n<p>Nearly five years ago the Order piloted our first training courses for celebrants, and in October 2017 we launched the online School of Celebrancy, where people all over the world can access them. During this time hundreds of students in over a dozen different countries have taken part in the two courses: \u201cServing the Living and the Dead\u201d, which focuses on funerals; and \u201cCelebrating Life\u201d, on weddings, handfastings and naming ceremonies. One of this year\u2019s graduates is Desiree Overeem in the Netherlands, who was inspired to create an e-book based on the vow writing exercises and ceremonies that course tutor River Jones shares in \u201cCelebrating Life\u201d. Desiree and River invite one another to reflect on their experience\u2026<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Desiree\u2019s Questions to River<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><em>With your broad experience, I read over more than 400 ceremonies, what makes celebrancy still special for you?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s a great question, thanks! I think it will always be special, no matter how many ceremonies, because each and every one is such an important moment in the lives of the people it is for \u2013 and it\u2019s such a special privilege to share those moments. What is the most memorable, special moment during a ceremony for you?<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s easy \u2013 it\u2019s always the parts I didn\u2019t write! The vows in a marriage, parents\u2019 special wishes for their children in a naming, funeral speeches by family members \u2013 all of these are so very moving and powerful to witness.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>What is your vision of celebrancy for the future?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>I think we live in a very exciting time for celebrancy. My vision is of a future where individuals, families and communities the world over are served by celebrants who support them to co-create the ceremonies that feel real and meaningful and just right for them, helping to reinforcing their connections with one another, with life, with love, with magic! You write such lovely vow exercises and blessings for the couples and families you work with. Where do you get your inspiration from?<\/p>\r\n<p>Thank-you Desiree! I\u2019m deeply inspired of course by the natural world, by traditional blessings, the work other poets and writers, by my studies in Druidry and nature based spiritualities and of course by the people I create ceremonies for!<\/p>\r\n<p><em>What was it like for you to create the e-book \u2018Inspiration from nature\u2019?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>Well, as an e-book it\u2019s really more your creation than mine! And it was lovely to work together with you to create a resource that I hope will be of real use and value in helping people to connect with the magic of the natural world as they prepare their vows, to find their way to the heart of what marriage means to them, and to create the most wonderful special moments in their own ceremonies!<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>River\u2019s questions to Desiree<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><em>What has drawn you to the path of celebrancy?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>During my coaching studies we worked a lot on personal development and by listening to my inner voice even more consciously, I was shown the path of ceremony, as if I had done it many times before \u2013 and I probably will. I\u2019m really following my heart! It is a real privilege to be able to accompany people during their ceremony during those special moments of life, sometimes I can hardly believe I\u2019m doing this, it\u2019s so great!<\/p>\r\n<p><em>What experience do you bring to this path from your previous working life?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>As a former IT-service desk support manager and as a coach, I have learned to really listen to people; to hear, see and feel what someone truly means. This enables me to bring their wishes, love and deeper meaning into their ceremony.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>What does your practice of Druidry bring to your work as a celebrant?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>For me, Druidry and celebrancy go hand in hand; consciously dwelling on the moment, and taking the time to really connect. On a spiritual level, it brings the deeper connection with the people and the natural world, as well as awareness of the Spirit of Time and of Place. On a practical level; the annual festivals and personal rituals all contribute to my experience of ceremony.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>What inspired you to create the e-book \u2018Inspiration from Nature\u2019?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>The heartfelt vow writing exercises that you shared during the course Celebrating Life, River! The idea of bringing the love people have for each other together with the magic of\u00a0nature, and the invitation to give words to their love \u2013 this lit a flame inside me and the creativity had already started to flow like a river during the course.\u00a0Your beautiful words deserve a wider audience. framed with color and image so that many couples will be inspired!<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Where are you heading now on your celebrant\u2019s path?<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>My celebrant\u2019s path is already clearly moving towards the more nature inspired ceremonies, especially handfasting. This summer, most wedding ceremonies booked have been cancelled due to the corona measures, I look forward to having a handfasting ceremony in the autumn. And hopefully next year I will come back to the School of Celebrancy to study \u201cServing the Living and the Dead\u201d.<\/p>\r\n<p>It is a great path to walk, assisting people during the most important moments of their lives. I feel very grateful!<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>The e-book \u2018Inspiration from Nature\u2019 is a free resource to support with writing vows for weddings and handfastings, and can be downloaded as a PDF at their websites<\/strong>:<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>English version at River\u2019s site:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.celebrantforyourceremony.com\/resources\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">celebrantforyourceremony.com\/resources<\/a><\/strong><\/em><br \/><strong><em>Dutch version at Desiree\u2019s site<\/em>:\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.desireeovereem.nl\/e-book\/\" class=\"broken_link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">desireeovereem.nl\/e-book\/<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nearly five years ago the Order piloted our first training courses for celebrants, and in October 2017 we launched the online School of Celebrancy, where people all over the world can access them. 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